Yesterday we celebrated the unveiling of my Dad's tombstone, a ceremony that Orthodox Jews do to bring together friends and loved ones to see the tombstone for the first time. I found the unveiling to be very meaningful. It was an informal and short service. After the Hazzan, who lead the service, was finished with the Tehillim (Psalms) he invited people to share a few words. We heard such sweet, tender and beautiful sentiments along with wonderful memories.
The common theme that I heard, and what I have always felt was Dad's most memorable quality, is that when you were with him you just felt good. He made you smile. He didn't have to do or say much, you just felt good being near him. He touched lives in such a deep way. It was as if he set an emotional tone, like he calibrated your energy with his, creating just the right amount of positive.
I walked away from the cemetery just feeling good.
The common theme that I heard, and what I have always felt was Dad's most memorable quality, is that when you were with him you just felt good. He made you smile. He didn't have to do or say much, you just felt good being near him. He touched lives in such a deep way. It was as if he set an emotional tone, like he calibrated your energy with his, creating just the right amount of positive. 
Nancy,
ReplyDeleteIt was his bright smile, strong handshake, quick joke and his attentiveness that made him someone you just wanted to be around! How lucky you were to be able to have called him dad!
Nancy,
ReplyDeleteYour Dad was a gentleman that did not judge people. He loved everyone. And you are so right about the smile. :) A great Legend of Tyrone.
What a nice time for you!
ReplyDeleteBeautiful and profound words...you carry his legacy well, my special friend.
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